How to keep him faithful
Are you’re worried that you’re not satisfying your man’s sexual desires? You can keep him keen on you and coming back for more.
Read the following and you will learn how to keep your man !
Sometimes take the initiative
This is high on most men’s sexual wish-list, so few women ever say: ‘Let’s have sex’ – or even hint that they want it.
Taking control of your sex life now and again doesn’t mean you have to dress up in and crack a whip around (well, not unless you really want to).
Showing him you want him is probably the most important thing you can do to keep his excitement levels up and boredom at bay.
Sex psychologist Dr Petra Boynton says: “It’s amazing the number of guys who say the one thing that would improve their sex life the most would be for their partner to make the first move. It’s one of the commonest male complaints.
If he never made the first move, would your sex life be dead? Many women, would say yes.
Yet there’s no need to do anything that you don’t want to do , or anything that makes you uncomfortable if you want to take the initiative. It’s about giving him a look, or a touch, that says: ‘I want you.'”
o give him a passionate kiss when he least expects it could have amazing results! Or perhaps you could suggest you watch a sexy film, read erotic books together or dress up.
The happiest sexual relationships are those when both partners take their turn to take the initiative.”
Keep showing him affection
Being loving like holding hands, touching each other and kissing regularly not just when you’re having sex are vital to boost your satisfaction rating, and how appreciated you feel by your partner. It’s all too easy to forget displays of affection when you’re settled with someone, but in fact they’re more important the longer your with them.
Cuddling up while watching TV, planting a soft kiss on the back of his neck or holding hands while you’re waiting in the bus queue taking any opportunity to confirm your physical closeness will keep the sexy feeling going.
For either partner, if you’re only shown affection or your partner only says: ‘I love you’ during sex, you will feel used. If you think your partner only gives you compliments to get you into bed. Women, in particular, will avoid sex when they feel like this.”
When you show your partner how much you notice them and fancy them outside the bedroom, will increase your satisfaction when you do have sex.
Agree not to have sex
If you have sex regularly, banning intercourse for an agreed period of time is a good way of spicing things up. You can concentrate more on teasing and play, and include elements that perhaps you forget or don’t bother with when you’re having ‘regular’ sex.
Perhaps you’d like to try massaging each other, or tease him by wearing no underwear.
Even couples in fairly new relationships may benefit from this idea. You only have to have been together for a month or so to have got into a pattern of sex.
By showing your lover that you want to break that pattern and make things more interesting you are focusing on them and their satisfaction, which is a huge turn-on.
Careful though: sex bans are only exciting if you are having sex fairly regularly. “Couples who are in a ‘sex rut’ that is, they’re fairly bored with their sex life, usually do it in the same position and with the same set of moves could find that a sex ban only emphasises their dissatisfaction.
Compliment him regularly
We all love to be told we’re great. Compliment your man and his performance and he will always want you. “There’s a trick to it, though, You don’t want to give compliments just to get them back, but if he never compliments you in return you’re not going to want to keep doing it.
A good way to start is to say something like: ‘I really think we should tell each other more often what we like about each other.’
Men do need prompting to compliment in return, They’re not used to the etiquette of it as women are. We all learn with our girlfriends that if our friend says she admires something of ours, then we give a compliment right back. Guys just don’t do this. Give them a compliment and they’ll just say: ‘Thanks.'”
Compliments don’t necessarily have to be sexy to keep him feeling hot for you, either. Thanking him for something thoughtful he does that makes you happy, for example, will increase his all-round sense of wellbeing when he’s with you and make it more likely that he’ll believe you when you tell him how great he is in bed.”
Share your fantasies
The most important thing to remember about fantasies is always to use them in a way that makes you happy. There is no point in being persuaded into doing anything sexually that you find uncomfortable, frightening or ridiculous.
A man will be excited to hear you admit that you have fantasies even if you feel they’re rather tame, because he’ll love to think you’re thinking about sex nearly as often as he
And finally, remember that one of the best ways to keep your man endlessly fascinated by you is to be a bit selfish.
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